Baby M

My Baby M story ended too soon

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my son 3 months also at 20 weeks. We thought everything was going okay until one night I caught a fever and went into labor the next morning. The worst thing is I had to give birth because I had infection in my body that could've killed me. And wasn't able to take my baby boy home due to the fact that I was only 20 weeks so he was too young to save. All I can say is that if you have support from your partner, friends, or family or even the March of Dimes it somewhat helps. And I have heard stories more worst than ours. I didn't even know how to pray when everything happened I was so upset that God had taken my baby away after 2 years of trying to get pregnant. I'm sorry for your loss again and hope that time and your angels will help you conceive a beautiful, healthy baby, maybe even twins <3

  • Thanks Babouches and Enana30 for your kind words. I am so sorry Enana30 for your loss. I think of my boys every day and keep playing those  unforgettable days again and again in my mind. It’s not fair that this little being who was growing happily inside for 20 weeks is taken away from me in just 8 hours. What would I not give away to have them back. I prayed that the doctors tell me my mistake that lead to this outcome but unfortunately even they don’t have any answers. I’m desperate to get pregnant again and to hold a healthy baby in my arms.

  • Hello and Welcome,

    I am so very sorry for your losses. It is most definitely not fair and so very sad . I am truly sorry that you are going through this. Please know that you are not alone and we are here for you.

    Love and Hugs

    Brandi

  • BabyM and enana30, I'm so sorry for your losses. My heart is with you both and with your families. I hope Share becomes a community of support and hope for you. Know that you are not alone - we have many parents here with similar experiences who can help you through this. We're here for you <3