One of the nice things about moving to new, new-ish, state and starting over is that you don't have a lot of drama in your life. How can you have drama when you don't now that many people? I will tell you how... technology. Technology follows you every where. You can't escape technology. Some of you may already guest what my post is about, well if you are on my Facebook page. Wednesday night a former high school friend decided to text me out of the no where. I have no talked to this girl in over a year because she pretended to be pregnant and then told everyone that she lost the baby. When I tried to reach out to this girl her mom informed me that she was never pregnant. I personally take it really seriously when someone loses a baby and for someone to pretend to be an Angel Mom angers me. So I haven't talked to her until Wednesday. I won't go into the details of the drama side, but for some reason this girl thought it was okay to bring up Allison in a negative way.
This isn't the first time that this girl has brought up Allison in a negative way, or to be honest the only person who has thrown Allison in my face. Not only am I angry but so is my family. This girl and I were really close at one point. She would even call my mom her mom. During my senior year of high school she decided to get Allison's name tattooed on her neck. My mom is waiting to bump into her. My younger sister, who I recently just started talking to, messaged her informing her how heartless it is for her to talk about Allison negatively. This girls response was that she watching a girl get Allison tattooed on her back. The girl that she was inferring to was my friend until I moved to Texas and has been her accomplice in the whole harassment thing.
I know that nothing they say will ruin Allison's memory. Allison is not defined by what I do. She will always be innocent and pure. I know that letting them get to me will fuel them. I just can't comprehend the cruelty and heartlessness that fills someone. Is my generation just filled with heartless... insert profanity here....? But I am okay. They have awful lives and I have a pretty good life. I have decided not to let them get to me.
No, your generation is not filled with heartless *******. YOU are proof of that! I'm astonished at your maturity in the face of this attack. It's not easy to be the bigger person, but here you are, choosing happiness instead of letting these girls bring you down. Allison is pure and her memory will remain so despite any attempts by others to hurt you or her.
I cannot even understand the motivation of people like this. I had a student who pretended that she'd had a baby who was in the NICU. Posted pictures and everything, then she said he died. Of course, I reached out to her and on the day she was supposed to go to a support group with me, I found out that it had all been lies. Why anyone would choose that for their story is beyond me. You have every right to be angry.
Block that girl and keep your head up. Much love to you <3
Tamara, I'm so sorry that people feel like it's okay to harass you about Allison or anything else. I think that every generation has heartless people, just like every generation has people who are kind and loving and generous. Like Shannon said, look at you. You are proof that your generation has good people.
Keep living well and remind yourself that you are better than the drama they're trying to stir up.
So much love to you,
I too am astonished at your ability to be the better person here. You are absolutely right that nothing anyone else says or does can tarnish Allison in your heart. She was an innocent and always will be. She will always be yours and always be loved.
I would suggest blocking her number through your wireless carrier and on all of your social media.
Love and Hugs
It took me a few days to post this. Mainly because I had to talk myself down from driving to Michigan just to use physical violence against them. So at first I wasn't very mature about it. But a lot of people calmed me down. Thank you all.
I am sorry you are having to deal this. You have the right attitude to just look at how your life is going okay and try not to let it get to you. I know it's hard to not let it get you but at least your trying. Sometimes people just want everything to be about them and will stop at nothing to make sure it happens no matter who they hurt. Nicki
People can be so cruel. I think that you have been given life experience that has put you in a place to grow up so quickly. Some people never grow up and have a need for constant attention. It is not your generation, just maturity in general as well as whether this person has a kind heart. I hope that some day she will learn compassion. So many people are proud of who you are and support you. Allison will always be yours no matter how hard this old friend tries to hurt you.
Wow, as an angel mom myself I just got extremely offended reading that someone would actually fake losing a baby. So sorry she decided to start texting you and bringing drama/negativity into your life and saying negative things about Allison. You are definitely showing you are the better person by not letting them get to you. Thinking of you!
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