Don't get me wrong here. I love my nicu and what they have done for me and my daughter. but I just found out at 4 months old "hands on" times are for the smaller babies. My daughter Raven has 1-5-9, apparently at this point that is just a "suggestion". she is too big for that. Raven got a bath Saturday morning so the nurses thought it was ok for them to skip a hands on.
From what I can tell a normal baby would be okay skipping it. but Raven has pulmonary hypertension so she is on lasic which makes you peeeeeeee.......... ALOT. well these nurses thinks its ok to make my daughter lay in her own piss for 8 hrs........
I was told from a nurse that if she was at home I would not wake her up in the middle of the night to change a diaper. My response to that is that if my baby is at home and she soaks through a diaper and clothes. I personally will wake up at anytime, DAY or NIGHT and change her diaper.. I feel like this is neglect on there part and this is there way of covering it up. PLS PLS PLS tell me if you have been through anything similar
and if so how did you handle it. These People take care of my child so I really don't want to piss them off and it get taken out on her. but I'm scared for every moment that I'm away from her. How do they do her when I'm not there.