Hi there, welcome to Share. Oh how the day to day is so hard, I felt lost going through those weeks while mine were in the NICU. Didn't know where I was supposed to "go" or what do do that felt "right." What helped me was doing as much as I could for mine, with the guidance of the nurses. I think the more I did and the more hands on I was, the better I felt and the more comfortable I was feeling in the NICU. I also tried to go outside as much as possible just to get some fresh air and walk around a bit. Hang in there, I know it's so tough. Does your hospital have a graduate parent group? You could ask your nurses about that. I know that the more I connected with moms who had been through the NICU, the better I felt. We're all here for support so keep us posted on Hudson!