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***written Oct 2006 when I first joined SHARE***

About two weeks ago I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl named Trinity. She was only 25 week gestation yet she was only measuring at 20 weeks. She was only 11.4 oz and 10 inches long. She was born in order to save me from my body shutting down and my husband would have lost us both. They told us with the growth restriction she had she probably wouldn't have made it, even if i hadn't developed preeclampsia so early and if she had she would have had a limited life. I am having a hard time with it all and looking for people to talk to. If anyone has advice or anything or wants to chat .email:  s.idle83@gmail.com


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  • You and your family are in our prayers. There is no right thing to say when tradgedy hits a family.  My heart goes out to you. Stay strong and if you need support you came to the right place! We are here for you. God bless~ Carrie

  • I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  Please know that this great community is here for you and your family in your time of need.

    Keep writing, this is such a wonderful way to begin to heal.  Time will mend your broken heart and we are here to help you through this difficult journey.

    Your are in my thoughts and prayers.

    HUGS,

    Colleen

    Mom to

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  • Hi Samarella, I am sorry to hear about your loss.

    I can relate, as well. I gave birth to a boy on 7/22 at 25wks. He was in the NICU for a month. He later got NEC and an infection and died.  I am still tring to recover from it. It seems so unreal. I keep seeing people who are pregnant and were due before me and they are still carrying, and I see his picture and wish he was still here.  

    I feel your pain, and my heart goes out to you.

  • sorry to hear about your loss.  I know its so hard to have been expecting and if your are like me planning our lives together, to realize that it won't happen like that at all.  I'll keep you in my prayers and believe that you will grieve and know you are right in doing so.  One day things will be better.

  • I am so sorry for the loss of your precious little one.  I too lost my son.  He was born at 27 wekks and he had IUGR.  He weighed 1 lb 9 oz.  I hope that you find strength and know that you are not alone.

    Hugs

    Christen

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I know how heart broken you must feel. I am so glad you found Share. This is a wonderful place for support and healing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Desiree

  • I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter.  I hope you find people here to relate to that can help you cope.  We are all brought here for a reason and this site can really help you understand things and meet people whp understand exactly what you have been through.  I wish you and your family the best of luck during this healing process and keep us all updated.  Best of luck!

    *Nikki

  • Trinity.... what a lovely name.  I am so sorry for your loss...... and so pleased that you found this site.  You will meet (too) many parents here who have been in your shoes.  I hope you find some comfort in sharing your story with us and interacting with those who can most relate to you.  

    Peace -

    Lori

  • Thank you all for your encouraging words.  Find people who have been through the same types of things has been great.

  • I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter Trinity.  You may want to check out the "Loss of a Child" folder Under the Parent to Parent tab.

    Welcome to Share, I hope you find some comfort here.  There are many parents here who have also lost a child(ren).  We lost two of our triplets, 25 and 26 weekers.

    -Shonda

  • I'm so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby girl! I can't imagine how heartbreaking this is for you and your family.

    I'm glad you have found Share. There are so many here who have had a similar loss. I will keep you in my prayers for healing and peace in your heart.

    Take care,

    Karri

  • I am so sorry for the loss of your little angel... What a beautiful name....

    Welcome to Share!!!!!!... I am happy you have found this site, Share is a community filled with compassion, we will be right here for you anytime you need a shoulder to lean on...

    Please visit often...

    Wishing you peace and healing

    Hugs & God Bless

    Melody

  • i am so sorry. i know how you feel. my daughter passed away at 4mths old may 15, 06. only time will heal and with god by your side and that little girl in heaven.

  • I am sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my son 7/4/06, Nicholas Anthony. I too had preeclamsia, I had been hospitalized and medicated for a week, my organs were shutting down and I was told that there was no other choice but an emergency csection. Although I was nervous about having him so early I still felt that he would be alright, he was beautiful and so tiny but he was a fighter and he stayed with us for 16 hours. I still miss him everyday, its been a little over a year now but my heart still aches for him. Happy birthday to your little Trinity and my best wishes to you and your family.

  • I am so sorry to hear about your lost of your sweet angel Trinity. I also lost my son Jaden. I understand what you are going thru.

    I'm glad you have found Share. There are so many here who have had a similar loss. I will keep you & your family in my prayers.