Making Sense of Preeclampsia/HELLP

Poetic Reflections on Relationships After Loss

  • This is so beautifully written! I hear you. I hope that you are having healing moments with therapy. I don't know if hubby has already moved out, but hope that you are able to breathe a bit easier.

    I share some of your same thoughts. I'm a giver too. I wish that I had been more selfish, taking better care of myself, meeting my own needs ahead of others. Maybe part of his story would have played out differently. I am trying to learn to be more selfish, but it is hard. We lost our son at 30 weeks. Like you, I was bleeding out and I was there alone.

    Even 11 years into grief, I still have those paralyzing thoughts, usually at night, where all the painful memories come flooding in. I just wanted you to know that you're not alone. I hope that you are rediscovering you and taking all the time you need.

    Sending hugs,

    Lindsay