Living my new normal

An amazing weekend

  • I am so glad to have met you! I am glad for the quiet moment we had to talk and for the fact that you took the plunge to come!  I hope to see you in future Share Unions.   Until then keep blogging and know that we are all always here to support you.


  • I am so glad you were there this weekend.  I too feel at SU I am totally "Akeelah's Mommy".  It's such a special place- and I am so very very very glad the weekend was right for you and allowed you to reclaim yourself and your story and let go of "stuff", people who have been holding you.  You're so right, we're not the same people after our little ones are born- how could we be?  They have left forever prints on our hearts.

    Virtual hugs until next year!!


  • It was so great to meet you Nicki.  I loved hearing about Scott and yes, his death changed you.  But like you said, that change isn't a bad thing, it just is.

    I am so glad you were able to find comfort and peace in your weekend with us.  There is so much to learn from sitting across from someone who gets what you've been through.

    I really hope to see you next year too.  

    Thinking of you,


  • Nicki - It was great to meet you and hear more about Scott's story.  I'm so glad that SU was a great experience for you.  Hope to see you next year!


  • I feel so blessed to have finally gotten to meet you!  Thank you so much for sharing Scott with us!  Cant wait to see you next year!


  • I was sooooooo happy that you came! I was also so happy to meet C. He was just as beautiful as I imagined. Crazy right! Scott was such a beautiful baby and seeing C was just such an amazing moment, thank you for introducing us. It was one of the highlights of my weekend. :) He is perfect! I can't wait to see Elvis (again). I actually like the new me, I think that the new me is a better person to some degree. The new me is acutely aware of so many more things. Would I take the new me back if it meant bringing back my daughter? Absolutely, but we all know that isn't an option. So I am stuck with the new me and honestly I like her. She gets a lot done. Lol. I can't wait to see you next year and get to know you and your family more in between. Please don't hesitate to call, text, email in between if you need me!


  • It was great meeting you this weekend and i too am still trying to mesh the old nikki with the new nikki