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MORE TESTING [2]

Yesterday, Tristyn had more testing. This one was for speech. Our appointment was a little over an hour and a half and that's a long time to sit for a four year old! I watched and sat quietly as my son was asked numerous questions and given multiple directions. I watched his eyes, his little fingers manipulate squares into various and complex patterns, and his little mind working away trying so hard to understand at times what was being asked of him. When he doesn't understand, he just repeats the last thing one says. We have to come back for part #2 of speech tomorrow as he was getting tired and they want to score him accurately based on his ability and not what he can do when he's tired. I appreciated that, so I'm more than happy to bring him back. Well, I still have an appointment for occupational therapy in mid-October, but unofficially, the psych said that he is showing characteristics of . . . autism, what level they can't say yet. More testing and an interview for parents next week. When I heard it, I know I felt a tear form in the corner of my eye, but I made it stop. I didn't want to be a blubbering mother, not there anyway. While very unofficial, I am so relieved to know what "it" could be and if so, we have a direction to go now. We can get him help so that he can continue to grow and be a happy child. I'm so glad that I didn't take on the extra sections. I have the time to absorb all of this, make and keep appointments, and be there for Tristyn. And exhale . . .

  • Your right exhale... That is allot for a parent to take in but I am also glad they recognized when he was tired and want to get a true reading. I think it would put me more at ease with the doctors.

    I am hoping for the best news but I would feel similar. If it is autism then at least you have a diagnoses and treat accordingly

    Thinking of you Lindsay

    Brooke

  • Lindsay,

    Big hugs momma.  I'm glad to know the therapists took a break- it's so unfair to continue when a kiddo is so tired.  It says a lot about their knowledge and respect for kiddos that they took time to break.

    Autism is a big, heavy word... I know holding back that tear took a lot.  Know we're here for you every step of the way.

    Hugs,

    Lauren

  • What an ordeal for you and Tristyn. I hope that the remainder of the testing goes well and that whatever diagnosis you end up with helps you and Tristyn find ways to navigate the world in ways that work for him.

    Hang in there. You CAN do this!

    Love,

    Shannon

  • No matter the outcome, you have more strength than you know.  And on the days you feel weak, we'll be here to lift you up and help you keep moving forward.  You are doing a great thing in just having him checked out.  You can't solve the puzzle if you don't know what the pieces even look like.

    Hugs,

    Jackie

  • Lindsay-

    I hate how the punches just feel like they keep coming.  I hope part #2 of the testing went okay and will provide Tristyn with the help he may need.  take care- and will see you soon! :)

    Jennifer

  • Oh dear Lindsay you have your plate full.....

    I agree with Lauren, it is almost impossible to make a right diagnose on just one test....... Stefano therapist did several tests on one week at different hours of the day........and even like that I took other professional opinions...... you are a great mom...... sending you a big hug

    Lorena