Somewhere Over the Rainbow

Hospitalized and Confused

  • I am so very sorry you are going trough all of this.

    I lost my baby boy at 39 weeks due to an Umbilicol cord accident. My baby was perfect in evry way sometime I think what if I had got to him just in time to save him but some brain damage due to the lack of oxigen had already occured , what then I would have not had the strenght to let him go , you are facing very hard decision and whatever you'll decide you'll do it in the name of that precious baby you are carrying. Hope never dies. I wish you all the best

  • First of all, welcome to Share.  I'm so glad you found this site.  

    I am so sorry that you are going through all of this but I absolutely applaud your advocacy for your baby.  Regardless of what the future brings, you are doing so many things to give your baby a chance.  Many parents on this site have had to make decisions that so should never have to happen so please know that you have and will receive as much support as you need (plus some) from the wonderful people on here.

    Keep your chin up and please keep us updated.


  • I am so sorry you are going through all of this. You are already being a wonderful mother to your baby by being such a great advocate. Know that we are all here anytime you need to vent, about anything! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated.


  • Welcome to share.  I'm new to the site and have already felt very supported.  I am very sorry that you are having to go through this.  You are right, it is like a nightmare.  You can read my son's story on my blog.  We had to make some very hard decisions of our own.  It is so hard when none of your choices seem fair.  I will be thinking of you and your family.


  • Oh sweet girl,

    I am so glad you found Share....

    I am so sorry you are going thru this...none of it is fair.  I wish we could all make it better but please know that whatever support you need we are all here for you.  One day at a time....



  • Welcome to Share.   We were also told our little girl had several "anomalies" in utero and then diagnosed with IUGR.  My thoughts and prayers are with you… its so difficult to be asked to make decisions based on what is seen on a sonogram.



  • Oh Sweetheart - I'm so sorry you and Bruno are going through this difficult time.  I wish there were something more I could do - say.  I'm here if you need anything.  I will pray for all of you (little baby especially)  Most important - take good care of yourself through all this - both emotionally and physically.  Please know I love you a lot and send all the positive karma I can think of your way.  Lots of rest and know that you are Loved ever so much honey.

    ~Uncle Brion~

  • Welcome to Share!

    I'm so sorry that you're having to go through all of this.  I know that you must be having so many different emotions running through your head.  Please know that we're here to listen any time and that I'm praying for a good outcome for this sweet little baby!


  • I am so sorry for all you and your baby are going through...i think you are an amazing mum..doing all you can for your sweet baby..i know how scary it is to be in hospital feeling scared for your here if you need to thoughts are with you..lots of hugs..chantellex

  • Lib-

    Honey I love you so much and I cant tell you enough to please stay strong!!! God will never give us anything that we cant handle.  I know it is hard right now but please find the good in every day.  I cant wait to come and see you, my favorite pock marked faced little neighbor! :) Please give Bruno and little Baby Bianchi kisses from me, Ethan & Carly! XOXO

  • After reading your story I'm almost thankful that we didn't know anything.  We were spared from making any of those horrible decisions or laying in wait.  All we know is that Emmitt was small for his gestational age (26wks).  The doctor thinks we lost him sometime between 22wks and 24wks, but we will never know for sure.  I'm sorry that you had to deal with the stress and anxiety and I'm so very sorry that you lost your baby.  I know the pain.