Somewhere Over the Rainbow


  • I will send positive baby vibes your way! I am so sorry for your loss, my son is still in NICU so I can't pretend to know what you went through. It has only been 7 weeks since he was born (he was a 27 weeker)  and my husband is already talking about trying for another baby so we can try for that pregnancy experience we missed this go around. I am terrified, and told him lets wait and see how this goes lol. I am scared I will get HELLP syndrome again, or something else will happen to the baby. Kudos to you for trying again! Best wishes - Athena

  • So I'm not the only one feeling "phantom" movements, it's so bizarre!  Good to know that I'm not the only one that feels those.  I hate getting that negative, you always expect it but it's so crushing to actually see it withou the second little line.  Then you see that second line, and you don't believe it, so you test again and again!  I hope that day of taking a million tests comes soon for both of us!  Sending lots of baby dust your way when you want it, and it sounds like you do!


  • Yes -- I get the phantom kicks too.  It's been 6 months and I still get them.  It's so tough.  You are so strong -- keep trying.  Your faith inspires me.  I too believe that I have been so blessed.  I am so thankful for so many things.  I have no idea how this will all turn out "someday."  I know that we will try to have our second baby a lot sooner than if Zachary had this next child will be an angel and a gift.

    Keep crying, keep smiling, keep praying...


  • hi Libby, you will get the positive result you will we all long for that news hun and our days will come hey? its been 6 weeks since i lost my Brianna and my obst said that i will be very fertile at the moment and to use precautions if i dont want to get preg, did your obst tell you the same ??? take care thinking of you and wishing for you all the good news you want xx Amy (snappa)

  • Libby i had "phantom" kicks and flutters for months after my hysterectomy.  They are a painful reminder!

  • I know its hard to let go and just listen to your body.  I went through many years of infertility and it can take over your thoughts.  

    I hope you soon have the healthy full term baby you and your husband want.  


  • You and your lil Marco are in my thoughts....i know what you mean about phantom kicks and flutters...i still get them and its been 1 year since i lost my angel...i know what its like to long so much to be pregnant again...would just be so nice to have a healthy baby to hold in these empty aching arms...sending you hugs and wishes that you get the happiness you so deserve...chantelle xx