Hi everyone I really hope someone who has gone threw this reads this I need some advice and friend. I am currently 14weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. I had a daughter one year ago who at birth weighed 11lbs 5oz she was delivered vaginally. I was with baby for only 20 minutes I was rushed to surgery I had an Internal cervical tear and that didn’t stop the bleeding after repair so than I had a second surgery called an embolization to stop the bleeding.I lost more than 2 liters of blood and almost lost my life doctors told me not to get pregnant again but here I am I was asked to terminate pregnancy early on but I just didn’t have the heart to do it! I still go back and forth I’m so scared to leave my daughters 7 and 1 im terrified to leave them without a mother! A high risk doctor had recommended a cerclage my cervix is 3.1 a normal is 4. I’m praying and praying I am very hesitant on doing a cerclage because after so many procedures it still fresh and traumatizing. Sex is still very scary for me I don’t like being touched even papsmears freak me out ! TMI I know but this is my Truth and have no one to talk to . I also like to mention that I get frequent yeast infections during pregnancy so I’m scared to get an infection with cerclage. Look forward to hearing from some one soon