What about me?

Hello all,

A few days ago we found out my wife had a miscarriage at 7 weeks and had a D and C done today. She was understandably devastated but I was too.

I guess I just feel a little lost in it all. The doctors and nurses and friends and family all asked her how she was doing and some even asked ME how she was doing as if I wasn’t there or this hadn’t happened to me too. Everyone seems to expect me to just deal with it, and I’m trying to, but I have little support through this. I don’t expect her to provide that right now as she is grieving as well. I just wish SOMEONE would.

I feel like I can’t and shouldn’t burden her with my pain as she is dealing with her own and I am helping her as much as I can.

I just needed to get some of this off my chest.

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