In reply to eburttr:
Hello and welcome to Share. I am so sorry to read about the loss of your baby girl. From reading your story, it sounds like she was such a fighter and tried to stay with you as long as she could. I hope that you will hold on to the time of togetherness as you remember and honor her. I was in labor as well and didn't know it. I had undiagnosed preeclampsia, a placental abruption, and a blood clot. He was 30 weeks along and was born sleeping.
There are many on this site who have experienced loss. Many who have been able to conceive rainbow babies with extra care and monitoring steps in place. I hope that you read some of their stories and find more hope and inspiration here. I found this site days after our loss and it's been a helpful tool in my healing journey. I hope that it can do the same for you.
Sending you warm thoughts and well wishes,